Infidelity Counseling for
Individuals and Couples

Expert Affair Recovery & Prevention Services

Has your marriage or relationship been rocked by infidelity?
You’re not alone. Cheating is on the rise, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship—and our success stories prove it. Common reactions people face after the disclosure of an affair include:

If you’re the Betrayed Partner:

  • Do you feel like you’re going crazy, that your world has been turned upside down and you don’t know what’s real and what’s not?
  • Are you wondering how your partner could have done this to you?
  • Are you torn between wanting to leave and wanting to stay, and feeling like a fool for even considering staying?

If you’re the Betrayer:

  • Do you regret what you did but have no idea how to repair the damage?
  • Do you want to understand why it happened so you don’t repeat the same mistake?
  • Do you want to save your marriage or relationship but don’t know how?
  • Are you unsure if you should stay or go?

You may feel lost, helpless, or uncertain about your future and what next steps you should take. Our trained therapists will guide you step-by-step through the recovery process.

We can help.
Forgiveness and recovery are possible. You will not only learn the tools to rebuild trust, but you have the opportunity to make your relationship stronger than ever. Through research and almost 20 years of working with individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, Anita developed the “Affair Recovery Plan” to help you:

Learn how to cope with the roller coaster of emotions and common symptoms

Learn the must-have tools to prevent future infidelity (i.e., the Threat Check Conversation™)

Understand why the cheating happened

Address other relationship/marital issues

Recover your self-esteem and be healed

Rebuild your relationship/marriage

Threat Check Conversation™

Because infidelity is on the rise, it’s important to take the necessary steps to prevent it from happening—or from happening again. One tool that we offer is the Threat Check Conversation™ which is a conversation couples have to assess the threats outside of their relationship and increase awareness of their own vulnerabilities. Contact us below to purchase a copy today.

It is important to address infidelity as soon as possible to enhance the process of healing. To set an appointment or talk to Anita and her team call 312.219.3399 or fill out the form at the bottom of this page.

Explore our different services below.

Singles (dating)

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Individuals

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Couples

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Infidelity

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Workshops

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There’s a lot more that we can help with. Use the contact form below to connect with us. Any of the above can be worked on either individually or as a couple. If your partner doesn’t want to come in, it’s ok to leave them at home.

Contact Relationship Reality 312

If you have an issue submitting via the form below, please email us directly at inquiries@relationshipreality312.com. Emailing or submitting the form below will give you the fastest response time.
Book an appointment below. To ensure you will work with the best therapist for you, please let us know the following: a little bit about what you want help with, such as communication, recurring arguments, infidelity/rebuilding trust, trauma, physical intimacy, dating, etc. Thank you and we look forward to working with you. 

We are both in-person and virtual sessions and will check your benefits for coverage.

312.219.3399

333 N. Michigan Avenue, Suite 1010, Chicago, IL 60601