by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Dec 8, 2016 | Blog
If only it was as simple as putting “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” on your list to Santa. How cool would it be if he or she actually came wrapped in a red bow? From commercials to songs to couples walking hand in hand seemingly everywhere you look, ‘tis the season for...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Nov 8, 2016 | Blog
Several of my male clients are on dating apps and mention that of the first questions that women ask them is their height. When they say they’re 5’9” or 5’8”, they don’t hear from them again. The average height for men is 5’9”! When I heard these kinds of stories from...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Nov 2, 2016 | Blog
This is typically how the relationship rut begins. You meet someone new. You think about them all the time and can’t wait until the moment when you see them next. In the meantime, you can’t eat, sleep or concentrate. You check your phone a hundred times a day to see...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Oct 26, 2016 | Blog
While dating, you will meet men who don’t want a relationship or marriage…just yet. However, while you may be ready for commitment, he may not in the right stage in his life to want a serious relationship or even marriage. If you’re wondering why he’s procrastinating...
by Anita Chlipala, LMFT | Oct 12, 2016 | Blog
Facing the aftermath of being dumped by surprise can be one of the worst feelings. You can’t seem to focus at work or school, you become obsessed with memories of your ex, you lose your appetite. And when my clients come to me in these kinds of situations, I find that...